Hey lady, are you mad when a guy doesn’t want to take you out for dinner on a first date? Yes? Ok keep reading… Yeah, I get it… You’re looking for effort from a man… I mean, if you’re actually interested in the guy, right? And that’s exactly what men are worried about and filtering […]

Missing Context Creates Bad Dating Advice I’m writing this post because small omissions or seemingly subtle context shifts can leave large and inadvertent impacts on people. This is important to me because when I went through my coaching training, I was taught 3 very simple ethical questions for coaching: 1. Is it safe for who […]

I saw this post in a group on Facebook asking “why are so many men scared to date” single mothers… First off, it has NOTHING to do with “fear”. No one is scared. Single men with no kids know they’ll never come first, will have to support (in some way) and raise someone else’s kid(s), […]

Whenever we seek to improve ourselves in any aspect of life, whether it’s taking law classes at a university, learning to play the piano, or getting into shape, the most beneficial place for us to start is to examine and improve our mindsets, and the same goes for dating and relationships. I believe in this […]

Chemistry Escalation © is a natural process that 2 human beings go through from the time they met until and after they are in a long term relationship with one another. In this process are many, many steps that trigger “chemistry” in the other person. Within this natural process are different “structures”, if you will, and […]